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{January 23, 2012}   What Would You Think

I need opinions about something that happen with this photo a week or so ago that I still can’t make sense of. I have a Facebook page. I posed this a 1 1/2 years ago in support of breastfeeding. It is a random picture I found online and used. It was set as my profile picture for a short time back then. today it is in the middle or close to the bottom of the album it is in. Probably 100 or more pictures in there. No one has ever commented on it liked i or anything and it has not been my profile pic for a very long time.

About 2 weeks ago I woke up early and went online for a few minutes and all of a sudden it said I have a like on a picture. I go to see what one and it is this one. I would think nothing of it any other time. But it was from a guy who I have hardly ever talked to more than hi how you doing see you later type of thing. He use to work with my soon to be ex years ago I seen him on the  job or company parties the few they had. He is single and has no kids. Him and my soon to be ex don’t even talk anymore unless they see each other somewhere. I have never commented or liked any of his stuff he has never mine. To me it seems very odd that out of all the pictures on my page that he would look through them all and decide to like this one. There are hundreds probably thousands of pictures on my profile. I guess what really makes it seem odd to me is that he had to look me up go to my page then go to my albums go through each one and then click like. It isn’t like it could have really been done by accident. he had to pull my page up and look for them. why would he be pulling my page up at 6:30 in the morning going threw my pictures.

I showed it to my soon to be ex the other day and he thought it was odd and kind of funny. He said maybe he liked me and was hinting around. But wouldn’t you comment on a picture of that person not something like this? Even comment on one of the kids or something else just to try to start a conversation. He could even inbox me something if he didn’t want anyone else to see we were talking. assuming he didn’t want my soon to be ex to think anything of it or to know we were talking or maybe some of his other family that I know who is also on my page. I have had other guys inbox me comments about my pictures.

This person has always put me in mind of being the kind of shy type too. But soon to be ex says that when it comes to relationships or girls he likes he really isn’t but he isn’t one that talks about them with everyone either. But he isn’t afraid to let someone know if he is interested in them. So I really don’t know what to think. Am I the only one who finds this a little odd. How am I supposed to respond to that? Am I supposed to? Would you find it odd or just think nothing of it?



I think it is a really cool picture! I breast-fed my 2 babies and I fully support breat-feeding. But, yes, it does sound a little odd that he liked this one, but I don’t know him at all! Maybe he was too shy to pick one that was obviously you, thinking maybe he would be being “forward” by doing that? Maybe he is a sincere man who appreciates the true beauty of breast-feeding? Maybe he just did a stupid thing by picking this picture, but he isn’t really that stupid, only awkward? Or maybe he is creepy! 🙂 I don’t know him so I don’t know. Do you think maybe he kinda likes you but he isn’t sure about how to approach you because he has been friends with your ex? Maybe don’t make a big deal about it and see what happens! 🙂



Hadn’t even thought of the creepy option lol but no that’s not it at all. I don’t think. 🙂



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