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{March 13, 2014}   Disappointed Not Surprised

I said in my other post I had been hanging out with a new friend and we been talking getting to know each other the last week or so. She is a friend of a friend we see each other over there at parties and things. But never really talked about our life and things. mostly just talked in a group and joked. She is the one watching my dog for me until we can have her again.

We went to breakfast and the flea market then took the kids to lunch last week and were talking. She was telling me stuff that the friend we met through had told her about me and things going on and about things between me and RC. A lot of it was untrue and didn’t happen the way she told her at all. I told her that and she even said when she was telling me that some of it didn’t make since to her when she was telling her it. She thinks my friend had a crush on RC and was kind of trying to make him look good in all this or what. It really bothers me and upsets me. That she would do that and then act the way she dose to my face. But at the same time it really don’t surprise me because you can’t hardly trust anyone anymore. This was the one I let be there with me when I had my daughter. I really don’t think she is lieing about what she told me because it wasn’t like she just came out and started telling me. We were talking about my divorce and how things were between father of the year and what happen with me and RC. She started saying what and that isn’t what I heard and was told at all. I had said something about yeah that is what pills will do to you and things. She had no clue about that. She was told that DCF was about to be called on us because things we didn’t and didn’t do. The people she was told was there and going to do all this stuff wasn’t even in the picture didn’t know anything that was going on or nothing. One person did say they were going to call but not because of anything we did or wasn’t doing. They were just going to call about how many people we had in the house. But there is nothing they could have done about that either they all had beds and things. We were looking at places to rent and it isn’t ok with them if you are homeless with your kids if you can’t afford a place. How could they say that we were in the wrong because we had a place for them it just wasn’t the ideal size and we were looking for a place. The only reason this person was going to call was a control thing. She thought if she said that then we would give her rides everywhere and give her money when ever she wanted it because we would be scared to have them called out there. But she found it didn’t work that way and that it just got her phone calls from someone she really didn’t want to hear from and almost a ass whip-pen from me. The last time she called and said that shit on the machine because we had stopped answering the phone to her. I got up from dinner got my clothes on got my idea and headed to her door. RC stopped me and begged me not to go down there and to let him handle it so I did. Handle it he did she was coming over and calling begging him to fix things and saying she wouldn’t bother us no more.

It just sucks that its like there goes another friend. I am sure I will still talk to her and things because are kids are so very close. But I know we won’t be as close as we were and I won’t feel I can talk to her like I use to about things. It isn’t like she got somethings mixed up or confused even it was just all twisted made up lies.

The other girl also brought something interesting up that I hadn’t even said to her. She was saying how she was friends with her and how close they were supposed to be and things but then how she turned around and is buddy buddy with her ex her kids dad and talks to him and more than her now. She also said that her ex husband that she had only met one time all of a sudden she is friends with and talks to all the time. Then her ex she came back down here with about a year ago who ended up treating her really bad and did all kinds of stuff to her. I was there I know what all happen and the friend I met her through and who told her all this stuff had been telling me how she was helping her and trying to get him locked up and how she as scared of him and scared for her and things. She is now friends with him and talks to him and was trying to tell her all about him and things. She said she found that kind of odd. I do to with that one because she was telling me the same thing she was scared of him and wanted him locked up didn’t like him and blah blah. She said she also thinks that she is giving her number to her one ex because no one has it but her who knows him and he always gets it no time after she changes it. I was thinking about it and I said you know I think she is still talking to RC some way as well just by different things she has said and she use to look at his page even when I didn’t or didn’t bring him up she would all the time and be looking at it. I don’t know why she had no reason too. When he moved it killed her to know where he was living. She went a drove around until she found his house. I was with her one day and she went and found it we drove by and he was sitting out front working on his bike. She was so glad we found it. I also think the fact that anytime we were together and I wanted to stop and say something to him or anything she always had some reason not to. Even her husband said a few times hell yeah I would have stopped to there nothing wrong with it. She oh no this and that. Anytime I say something about him she acts funny and when I say I am going to get someone to look him up get address and things for him she says oh I think I can get that for you but she never dose.

I all so had a problem with someone telling others stuff that wasn’t true and all twisted and things a few different times the last year or so. We were talking about it and she right a way started saying it was my friend J and he husband I had started talking to more and become friends with because I met them from RC and they were his friends first. But I really didn’t believe it and proved some of it wasn’t them but her sister. I know that part of what her sister said had to come from her as well because she don’t even live close and was talking about a bunch of stuff that she wouldn’t even know about. So she has told her some stuff too. I had someone else tell me before you have friends who talk and you be surprised what I can find out or what I know. The stuff they knew wasn’t right either. It was all stuff that I have no idea where it came from or stuff that was twisted and turned into something it really wasn’t.

The more I think about it and the more I hear I am sure it is all coming right from her. The more I think about it the less I really want to have to do with her. I guess I will just have to let it all play out and see where the pieces land. I am not going to say anything yet because the other girl asked me not to say anything about what was said between me and her. She told me stuff about her that wasn’t true either. And made her out to be way worse than she is. But in the end that is how she has made all this out to be that everyone is so much worse off than her or under her and she is so good. But it is all going to come out. I am going to get her to hang herself. Then she can’t say anything or denies it. She can’t get mad at anyone else for saying anything. I love how everyone thinks I’m just so stupid and have no clue what they are doing or won’t find out. A lot I had wondered about for a while but wasn’t to worried about because she don’t know anything to tell anyone that I wouldn’t tell them myself and anyone who knows me knows how things really are. The others do but just like her want to cause problems.



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