So last night when he messaged me he said I needed to get out. I said I knew. It was late he was already off line. A few hours later he ask if I would let him take me. I never replied until later this morning after I got to work and finished up some things. I just sent a little face kind of thinking. He asked what? I said nothing just thinking.
He said: Look I’m not trying to be wierd or anything I just want to see you have a smile on your face hun.
At this point I am thinking he is like probably 26 give or take a year. I was thinking he was probably around 20/21 years back when he was around and cut the yard. I was going to bring it up and let him know just as friends nothing else.
So I said alright. He was like what? I said I’ll go. He ask when? I told him I worked Sat,Sun,Tues and Wednesday nights for him to tell me.
What do you do ? And I mean who’s all going ? Is it me and you or no?
I sent him a picture of our logo with the name and things on it. He ask what that was. I told him he didn’t know what it was. I told him we lock you in a room and you have one hour to figure out puzzles and get the code to get out the door.
He said that sounds like fun my job. I said it can be interesting at times. That I liked handcuffing some and locking them in. Is it supposed to be like a kinky job? He said. I laughed my boss looked at me like i was crazy. I told him he was laughing.
Then he is asking me can I tell you something without you getting mad or exposing me on facebook?
I said yeah what’s that?
He said I like you.
I just said yeah. Thinking nope this is not going to happen. He is to young.
He said yeah like I want to take you on a date. I like you and want to hang out with you.
Ok .. so can I tell you a secret then. He says
I wanted to kiss you.. you’re so beautiful to me!
By this point I am laughing, I looked like hell when he was here. I wanted to ask him if he wanted to borrow my glasses get another look. All the while I am still trying to figure out how old he really is. I am thinking he looks young but he talking to me maybe he is older than he looks but im still thinking can’t be he looks to young.
Then I get…Would you let me ? If I come over there . Would u give me one as a birthday present? That would be the best present ever.
BAM!! Now I can bring up age see how old he is. I’m like oh it’s your birthday? So how old are you?
I get 20
I sent back…..20!!!???
He laughed said is that bad?
I asked him how old he thought I was?
He says……In the 40’s but is that a problem? Is my age a problem?
Now I’m like 40s REALY???!!!
I said I am 37.
See younger than I thiug I was think 42 -45 so that’s good .. would you let me ?
I did not say it to him but I am thinking WTF 42-45? I knew I looked like hell but I did not think I looked that bad.
I said can I ask you a question? He never answered until later in the evening. I figured he was working. He asked what.
Why are you interested in me? At your age? A single mom with 4 kids almost twice your age?
Well your just very nice . And that your very pretty. He started about how he just wanted to kiss me out there the other day. How he still does and everything. I’m like dying over here.
We joked and talked a little more he was asking to come see me today before or after work. About wanting to kiss again. I said i don’t know wht your so stuck on that and me I am nothing special.
He said because it make him happy.
I said why you could go find anyone?
He said why not? I just said I don’t get it. He I think got mad he said I’m going to bed. I said okay goodnight.
He kept talking and talking to me when he was here and getting close to me. I don’t know I really don’t get it.
I told my friend I either get these that are way to young (they keep getting younger) or the ones my age or older want a baby to start over or i scare them. Its like what the hell. Can I catch a break find a decent one close to my age that isn’t just looking for sex, i don’t scare and who don’t want a baby or to get married? For real isn’t there anyone out there?
I was at my friends hair place when he come out with being 20. She like he is just a baby!! I said I know he way to young. I said he can’t even drink this is never going to work. Joking but he really can’t. Someone said you have a driver. Nope not happening. He is only 5.5 years older than my oldest. If she was 18 and legal they could date. They could date in 3.5 years if they wanted to. That I would be okay with he seems like a decent kid he working hard doing his own thing. Has been working for years. But he is to young for me.
He see’s nothing wrong with our ages. I know some really feel age don’t matter if both are legal and want it. But really don’t it at some point still just seem wrong or become a problem? Or is it just me and my thinking? I mean I could really be his mother. I could have kids his age. Someone said you are talking to guys that are 8 or 9 years older. I am but they are not old enough to be my dad. I wouldn’t date a guy that much younger than me even though i would date one that much older.
I’m not trying to be no cougar lol
I guess to I just thought of writing that. He isn’t looking for a relationship either probably being so young. He just looking for a good time or whatever. I am looking for the relationship. Im past the good time or if it works ok if not oh well. I don’t know.
He says same as the rest your so nice, your so easy to talk to, i like being around you, talking to you. But then its you make me nervous, you scare me.
I told my friend the older ones know I am all that they say it. But they know I also don’t have to put up with their crap and i am not scared to say something or drop them in a second. The younger ones are to young and don’t get it all understand it all. They to stupid to it all to be scared. 😂. I can’t find one that is in the middle that i am on the same page with.
Now I see why this one kept saying you need to go out relaxe you need a break. You need to go out to eat. He kept making it a point to say somewhere to eat. Because he can’t drink. Wow. I knew he was way to young give benefit to doubt i shouldn’t have.