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As if the truck breaking down and finding out Father of the Year had a stroke wasn’t enough excitement it gets better. I think I told you all right before Thanksgiving about the bitch calling the police and freaking out telling them someone is after her. They have hacked her computer’s, our phones and messing around the house. She was so bad they were ready to baker act her but she didn’t say enough.

Will since then she has called them I don’t know how many times she has called them since. I am being told 21 but I do not think it has been that many unless they are calling when I am at work.

If someone walks by and looks at the house she is calling they are watching her trying to see her. If they pull up sit in the street or park on the side for something she is calling them. If they go flying by or around the house she is calling.

You have to know I sit on a corner lot with a stop on the side of my house and in front. I also live on one of the 3 ways to get in and out. It is off a busy street so a lot of people come and go.

Since I have moved in they will stop at the stop or just before it and text or make a phone call or check their gps or whatever. At least they are not driving and doing it they are stopping and waiting. They will fly down through here and around corners at 50 or 60 you think they are going to flip or roll. But this has all went on since I moved in, in 2014. She says it just started and it don’t matter when it started. The fact is there is nothing going on to call the police over. No one would call but her.

So I get home late Tuesday after they finally get the truck fixed eat and go to bed. About 11\1130 P.M. the dog starts freaking out some one is at my door. I figure she has called them again over something. Then they are calling me out there. A few weeks ago they woke me up called me out there and the cop insisted on me coming out and talking to him. I was already aggravated and tired and I did not want to go outside to talk to him. He kept on he needed to talk to me outside. I went out he was asking me what was going on that night or what. I said I didn’t know I was a sleep. He was asking about other stuff. I was just like I don’t know. You have to ask her. I was short and very annoyed he could tell. He ask me why I was mad or what. I said because I had to get up come out side in the cold and deal with him. That this has nothing to do with me. I don’t want in the middle of it. He said it did have to do with me it’s my house. I said she stays here too she called you not me. I don’t know what is going on I go to work come home eat go about my business, I don’t get into what she is doing. I just say yeah ok or whatever I don’t pay attention really. I don’t care i don’t want to be out here talking to you if I didn’t call you. She did take it up with her. No need to talk to me I have nothing to say. If I feel you need to come out here I will call myself and talk to you when you get here. I am not coming out here anymore if she calls. He said go ahead go in side.

So Tuesday night they are saying the police are here I need to come out there. Before I could say anything they say DCF is with them. Because I was about to tell them I wasn’t coming out. Until they said they were there too.

I go out there there is a social worker there wanting to talk to me. We go outside and she is telling they want to check on the safety of the kids the cops have been called x amount of times and all this. The cops said she seemed extremely upset and things when they first came out. They needed to make sure they were safe not scared there and all this. Ask all their noise questions. Ask where their dad was and all that.

I told her he the older 3 lived about 5 miles away was out of the picture. Had been for almost 4 years. He don’t call see them or pay child support. That little one’s dad seen here one time when she was 3 weeks old and he is in Tennessee somewhere. I told her I had just heard Earlier that morning Father of the year had a stroke and wasn’t in good health.

Then she asked if I had a boyfriend. I thought I just said no. She asked a bunch of other questions, if kids had any medical things, names ages birthdays. What their medical condition was. Had me sign papers to get their medical records and others for them. Then she wanted to talk to my oldest. I called her out there and went inside. They talked to her a bit and then sent her in. I went out she said she needed to talk to my oldest son.

I told her I needed to talk to her a minute about something she asked. She said okay what was wrong. I said you asked if I had a boyfriend. I said I do, but no one here knows at all about him we have been together for about a year. But that I was waiting to tell the kids. Then this covid crap started we just hadn’t told them. I said I didn’t date forever then did for a while. But that I tell the kids I am going with Bff. I said I do not bring men to my house or around my kids bring someone new home all the time. I told her I have known this one most our lives but I still wanted to see how things were going to go. I said I just didn’t want her to ask the kids about him or anything. Because they would be confused or what. She said no that was fine she completely understood.

She talk to the next two and I went out to talk to her see what was going on from there. She said she had to go back talk to her boss and figure out what needed to be done or what. I just looked at her the cops were standing there I said are you going to come back and take my kids or a chance of that? She said why would you say that? I said because you say you have to go talk to her figure out what to do. I said I told you this is what I was going to school for. I know you could walk away from here with them right now if you wanted to. I know you can come and do it tomorrow if she says to. If you can’t decide yourself tonight you must think there is a possibility that you are going to. I said my kids have been through a lot I already told you without their dads here and things. I said we are very close and they are never away from me. If you do that it is going to be detrimental to their mental health. If you walk in out of the blue and take them. I said if you do at all it is not going to be good on them but them not knowing ahead of time is going to be much worse. We talked a little more she went in talked to her.

She said she had to go out call her boss. It was after 2 am then. She was out there for a bit came back in. She said the boss said right now it was a civil matter she would be in touch not a lot they could do but the case is open case she would be back and she was going to talk to the people around me.

So now I am waiting to hear from her. I tried to get a hold of her the next day she has never called me back. I will try again Monday.



{August 17, 2018}   Bad Influnce

I was talking to Starfish the last few nights. Last night we were joking around talking. I sent him a pucture of the handcuffs we use at work. He said I could cuff him of I was wearing one of those police costumes. He ask when he was going to be arrested. I said I didn’t know. He said you show me those and talk about me being scared, but you don’t know when I am going to be arrested? Your a really good cop. I said nope but since when do the cops tell you they are coming to arrest you before they are there? he said oh okay or something. Later I said you don’t want me to arrest you anyway. He said why not? I said I’m not your type! He said a bad bot don’t get to pick his type of cop rite? We talked little more he said he was going to bed.

I talk to him some tonight. I said I was going to run away. He ask why? I told him I was tored of all the bs. He ask when I was? I told him I couldn’t i thought he said something else. He said you need a walk on the beach. I said that would be nice and ask what he was doing tomorrow night. He said hanging out with one of the guys that use to work at the shop with us. I said oh boy. He said what? I said stay out of trouble. He said he would.

It has bothered me since because everyone knows what he does. He is a dealer and does shit himself. He never really hangs out with him when he does it isn’t good. I don’t know i shouldn’t care but I do, I try not to but I do. I hate to see anyone do something stupid like this. Its harder when you know so much and are so close to the situation.

When I ask what he was doing tomorrow I was going to see if he wanted to go to the beach. I think I am going to talk to him tomorrow see if I can get him to go. I am going to tell him he owes me. He said the other night if it was early and he is the one who brought it up tonight. Ask him who is scared now? I hope something happens he don’t end up going.



I worked all night last night running in and out in the pouring rain. As soon as I would get back they would say you have another delivery or two more deliveries. I would bag them up and off I would go. The first two I went on yards and driveways were flooded. I ended up in ankle deep water so my socks and shoes were soaked. I hate shoes already and then add wet soaks and shoes for hours. This was 5 pm.

Its 8 something I get my last two deliveries. I almost asked My Good Friend if he wanted to take them or take the one going out to the groves. Its an area you can have horses in your yard, house sit on an acre or more probably. They have paved main roads most the side roads are still dirt. You get far enough back there they do not have electric or water. But it’s nice out there, I would live out there in a minute. Most the houses are nice good size, everyone keeps to theirselves and do what they want have what they want. Being out like that there are few to no street lights and black asfault roads make it hard to see. Add raining on top of that. With my lights the way they are I have a horrible time seeing out there at night and seeing the addresses on the boxes. The owner gave me the slip said she is at the end last house on the left. I thought okay I can do this I know where it is easy to find and I really need the money I will take them. I knew my friend probably did not want to run all the way out there either.

I get lost taking my first order because no one had their address up where you could see it. Not on their trailers or mailboxes. My gps said I was there it was the wrong house. It told me that about every house on the street. Lucky I only got out at one they were assholes. I finally called the people and was able to find it. Dropped it and was off to my next one. The one out where it is hard to see.

I get there the lady comes out I give her the pizza we talk about the fact it is still raining but starting to stop. Now that it is time for me to go home, I leave. I did not pull all the way up into her drive when I parked. I got in put my paper away wrote down my tip and was starting to back out. My phone rang it was my boss asking if I was headed back. I told her I was just leaving the last one. She telling me to hurry up she is aggravated. I am backing out as I am talking to her and cars are coming from three directions. I decide I will back onto the side of the road so I can see the traffic better and then just pull out. This is what I am doing as I am talking with boss she said something we were saying by and bam something happen. My truck fell,front end is in the air back is on the ground or something. I yelled as the phone fell and the truck bounced and shifted slammed around. I figured she heard me yell and everything but she was gone when I found my phone.

Wasn’t 5 seconds I bet there was blue lights behind me. I was calling my Bff and her husband my boss from the shop. I ask if he had the wrecker she said no. I ask if he get his truck come out there she said okay they were headed home they pick it up be there in a bit.

About that time the cop walked up to my window. I roll it down he ask HOW I’m doing and WHAT I am doing?

By now it is 9 I am soaked my shoes and socks are still soaked, I am dying of thirst. All I was thinking was I was going back to the pizza place get my money and drink, then as soon as I got back in the truck I was taking my shoes and socks off. Then this happens infront of two cops. He is going to ask how I am doing and what I am doing. Loaded question.

Before I even thought I said not very well and I guess backing into a fucking ditch as you seen. And now I don’t even know if I can get out of my truck or if it is going to shift, fall more or flip if I try and it messes with the weight on the truck.

He says um I mean do you live here? Why are you out here, where are you going or what? 😂

I said no I was delivering pizza’s and was trying to back out and leave.

He said okay just wait a second don’t move. He walked around the truck and said your safe to get out, you really did it there are two wheels off the ground but it’s pretty framed up I don’t think its going anywhere. Go ahead get out. He held the door because it was trying slam closed.

I told him I had someone coming to get me out right away as well. I did not want him to call a tow truck. There is no way I could pay that bill and they would of taken my truck. It is so much a mile on their way there and then so much to hook to it and after that it is so much for every 10 to $15 minutes they are there trying to get you put. It been over $200 by the time they had gotten it out. Probably close to $300 or more.

My Good Friend said I should of told him I done it to see if I could pick up a good looking cop.

In a bit this truck pulled up. I thought it was my friend it was two boys. They stopped was trying figure a way to get it out and help me. The problem was back passenger tire was in the ditch not on ground because there is an embankment I went over. Then front tire on driver side was off the ground the was it slid in there. The worse of it was there was a ditch a couple feet infront of me as well. These are deep water filled ditches not just grass side of the road drainage gets some water if it rains ditches. So we can’t pull it out backwards or the front will slam down into the ditch and they can’t get infront and pull because they will be in the ditch.

Tje boys were on the phone calling talking to people trying to figure out the best way to get it out and help. The cop was saying it probably have to be lifted out but how. The boys said lets get the loader we can lift the backend up and sit it back up there in just a minute. They called and it was in a couple cities over to far away. My friend finally got there with his truck he hooked to it from the side in the front and started pulling it. His tires started spinning because his 4×4 axel is broke he couldn’t lock it into 4wheel drive. It slung mud and dirt up over my truck amd all over my windows. I was scared the chain or strap was going to break and come through the windshield at me. I could feel my truck rocking, sliding and shifting. I was scared if it did break I was going to just go the rest of the way down into the ditch. Or roll down in there on the side. I had ask the boys if they would get in do what had to be done when they got there I was so upset stressed. They had said yes. But then when boss got there he just said get in I’m going to do this this this and when this this and this happens I will do this and you should be good. One of the boys took their truck up the street and turned around headed toward us and stopped in the street to block traffice coming at us and the other was helping the cop and boss stop traffic, hook up and watching my truck and what it was doing while he was snatching on it trying to pull it out. He can only see so much in the mirror and not being able put my window down I wasn’t able to call to him and couldn’t see what was going on either. But by that point I had calmes down and was able to do what he needed me to in order to get out. The way he had to pull me at an angle it bent the brackets to my bumper so it’s jacked up again. But at least that is the worse that happen. He had to pull out caddy corner across both lanes of traffice because of not being able to hook to it from the from front or back.

Thank God for friends. I talked to my Good Friend when I called work and told them what happen and ask him to come help me. But then I called back for something told him just go home because he just has a mini van the boys were there with a big truck amd boss was on his way with his. I knew between the two they could get me out. My Bff said they had some boys out there not far from where we were he was going to call that did have 4×4 if we had to have it.

the back tire down over the embankment of the ditch. Almost hit water.

you can’t really tell here but this is the front tire on the driver side thats off the ground.

my back bumper was on the ground at my feet. Can’t even see the tow package.

mud all inside my truck even with the window closed. From opening and closing the door and it being all over the outside of the truck.

my poor bumper that is the 3rd bumper since I got the truck. I don’t think it is meant to have one. They say its just the brackets guess we will see when I have money to mess with it.

My boss for the pizza place came out to where I was and picked up the money and said to let her know when I got out and if I could work today or not. I talked to her later she said she left my tips at the shop that I made $60 in tips. I am surprised because I thought I only made about $35/$40. But I think I must of forgot a few. I did more runs I think but made less per run on a lot of them but it evened out in the end having more runs.

Now I have to get off here and go have another exciting night of Pizza delivers. Ii can’t wait to beable to stop doing this.



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