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{September 10, 2018}   Lets Get To Know Eachother

Some more questions so you can get to know a little more about me. Would love to see everyone else’s responses. Comment and leave a link if you do them so I can come check it out. Read the rest of this entry »



{September 6, 2018}   Random About Me

When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with?

Relationships, kids and jobs

What takes up too much of your time?

Work

What do you wish you knew more about?

The field of work I am trying to go into and how to get money to open a business.

What would be your first question after waking up from being cryogenically frozen for 100 years?

I want to know what was going on.

What are some small things that make your day better?

My kids, talking to my friends

Who’s your go to band or artist when you can’t decide on something to listen to?

Don’t have one, I just flip stations until I find a song.

What’s the best way to start the day?

Alive waking up. Okay really um being able to sleep until I wake up on my own and not have to rush to get ready or be anywhere.

What shows are you into?

True crime, 48 hours, 20/20, dateline all those kinds of things. This Is Us

What TV channel doesn’t exist but really should?

Don’t know

Who has impressed you most with what they’ve accomplished?

My oldest son with autism. He has come along way in 13 years.

What age do you wish you could permanently be?

I don’t know maybe somewhere between 25 and 30.

What TV show or movie do you refuse to watch?

Sponge bob

What would be your ideal way to spend the weekend?

With my other half away alone with no kids or worries.

What is something that is considered a luxury, but you don’t think you could live
without?

Hum a vehicle

What’s your claim to fame?

I have been in the news paper a few times lol

What’s something you like to do the old-fashioned way?

I like to go places and take care of things pay bills or what. I want to talk with someone face to face. Most everything is done on line.

What’s your favorite genre of book or movie?

Books anything true, movies comedy

How often do you people watch?

All the time

What have you only recently formed an opinion about?

Not much because if it is not affecting me i really don’t care.

What’s the best single day on the calendar?

None

What are you interested in that most people haven’t heard of?

Can’t think of anything.

How do you relax after a hard day of work?

Hot shower and writing. If im extra lucky a nice walk on the beach at night.

What was the best book or series that you’ve ever read?

How to catch a killer

What’s the farthest you’ve ever been from home?

Few states away

What is the most heartwarming thing you’ve ever seen?

Can’t pick just one, its the little things and my kids are always doing something. They are so kind and caring.

What is the most annoying question that people ask you?

Are all those kids yours? You don’t look old enough to have that many.

Or anything someone ask more than once.



{August 29, 2018}   49 Things About Me

2. Zodiac sign

Capricorn

3. 3 fears

Something happening to one of my kids.

Snakes

Snakes lol

4. 3 things I love

My kids

My friends

My pets

5. My best friend

My Bff I talk about all the time

My good Friend

6. Last song I listened to

Meant To Be

7. 3 Turn ons

Confidence

Eyes

Protectivness

8. 3 Turn offs

Needy

Out of shape

Know it all

9. What colour underwear I’m wearing right now

Purple

10. How many tattoos/piercings do I have

2 tats so far

11. The reason I started blogging

To have somewhere to just get everything out vent to. And to have something to look back at and see how far we have come. The kids and I since we started this chapter in life. I will probably tell my kids about it and let them read it at some point in life.

12. How I feel right now

Feel nothing right now, haven’t felt this way in a while.

13. Something I really really want

Another job

A new to me truck with no problems.

14. My current relationship status

Sadly single and lonely

15. Meaning behind my URL

What my blog is about

16. My favourite movie

Dirty Dancing

17. My favourite song

This is hard I have so many

18. My favourite band

I like a lot of different people

19. 3 Things that upset me

Not being able to do better for my kids

Not saying no to things I should of

Way my kids dads have done them

20. 3 Things that make me happy

My kids

Friends

Pets

21. What I find attractive in other people

Eyes

Mouth

22. Someone I miss

My dad

23. Someone I love

My kids

24. My relationship with my parents

My dad was great

My mom horrible

25. My favourite holiday

Thanksgiving

26. My closest blogging friend

Don’t know anyone who do.

27. Someone famous I’d date 

Don’t know I do not really watch much tv or or keep track of famous people

28. A confession

I hate life right now

29. 3 Things that annoy me easily

Being asked the samething more than once

Being late

Sharing my bed

30. My favourite animal

Mokeys

Frogs

31. My pets

Frog, dogs,

32. One thing I’ve lied about

Having my shit together and being happy.

33. Something that’s currently worrying me

Getting a new job

34. An embarrassing moment

Puking down the door in class after getting injured in pe the class before. I was in like 7th grade.

35. Where I work

An escape room

36. Something that’s constantly on my mind

How much of a mess things are for me and the kids with my mother here and her leaving.

37. 3 Habits I have

Putting things off until the last minute or misssing it.

Can’t think of any really all i do is work and sleep to avoid everything right now.

38. My future goals

Meet someone and build a future together.

39. Something I fantasise about

Not being responsible for everything all the time. Having a break and help.

40. My favourite store

Don’t really have one whatever is close

41. My favourite food

Mexican

42. What I did yesterday

Work

43. Something I’m talented at

Worrying about everything

44. My idea of the perfect date

Hum being alone sitting or walking by the water just talking or goofing off.

45. My celebrity crush

None

46. My favourite blog

I am my own island

Therapy Bits

Are a few

47. Number of kids I want

I have 4 and I am done

48. Do I smoke/drink

Drink some smoke once in a great while when I drink. Think it has been 5 years since last time I did.

49. One word that describes me

Fun

50. My favourite quote

Never take no for an answer, if you really want it.



{May 23, 2018}   40 Things About Me

1. Whats your philosophy in life?

If you really want it don’t take no for an answer. 

2. Whats the one thing you would like to change about yourself?

My hair I would love for it to be straight and long again. 

3. Are you religious or spiritual?

Both

4. Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert?

I bounce between the two, there are times I want to be around people and doing things as much as I can be. Then there are times I am happy being alone and doing nothing for extended periods of time. 

5. Which parent are you closer to and why?

I was always closest to my dad he treated me like an adult and supported me in whatever I decided to do. My mom always treats everyone regardless of age like a child and tries to make them do what she wants. 

6. What was the best phase in your life?

I think I was the happest I ever remember being back in 2012 when I was with RC. 

7. What was the worst phase in your life?

Probably right now trying to take care of 4 kids 100% on my own and work and do everything for them. 

8. Is what youre doing now what you always wanted to do growing up?

No I wanted to be much better off and have a career and things by now. I have the kids but thats it. I thought I would have a husband and things as well to enjoy life with.

9. What makes you feel accomplished?

Sadly just getting everything paid each month without anything going off and having to ask for help.

10. Whats your favorite book/movie of all time and why did it speak to you so much?

Fav book is To Catch a Killer fav movie Juno I want to work with teen parents and pregnant teens. I think wjat she done was such a great thing for her and the baby. 

11. What is a relationship deal breaker for you?

He has to have confidences and goals, he can’t be cocky or rude. 

12. Are you more into looks or brains?

Brains

13. Would you ever take back someone who cheated?

I don’t think I could, trust is a really hard thing for me once it has been broken. 

14. How do you feel about sharing your password with your partner?

I don’t feel I should have to or they should have to with me but I would if they wanted it. I have nothing to hide.

15. When do you think a person is ready for marriage?

Is anyone ever really ready? It’s kind of like having kids, I don’t think anyone is ever 100% ready for it. You just pick the time that works best for you when you think you found the one. 

16. What kind of parent do you think you will be?

I am a pretty laid back easy going as long as there is respect.

17. What would you do if your parents didnt like your partner?

It wouldn’t bother me I am the one with them not them so they don’t have to like them. 

18. Who is that one person you can talk to about just anything?

My good friend I can say anything and everything to him and not worry about his response. He will let me vent cry scream yell or whatever and just listen hold me and try to cheer me up if its the right time or response. He won’t freak out about anything I say or over react and turn it into something it’s not. I got to spend time with him, his dad and boys today for a bit. It was nice just talk relaxe and play with the babies.

19. Do you usually stay friends with your exes?

No

20. Have you ever lost someone close to you? Yes and not just by death sometimes we do by distance

21. If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be left alone or have someone to cheer you up?

Depends why I am in a bad mood.

22. Whats an ideal weekend for you?

A weekend at a hotel on the beach with my other half, no phones kids or worries. 

23. What do you think of best friends of the opposite sex?

They are some of the best friends one can have.

24. Do you judge a book by its cover?

Yes the cover has to catch my eye amd look interesting or i don’t even stop to see what it is about. 

25. Are you confrontational?

More than I should be probably but it takes a lot to get me to that point most the time.

26. When was the last time you broke someones heart?

when I told Mr. To Broken I wasn’t interested in anything more than being friends.

27. Would you relocate for love?

yes

28. Did you ever write a journal?

yes a lot when I was younger and now I have my blog.

29. What are you most thankful for?

my kids, my good friend, my bff and my friend J.

30. Do you believe in second chances?

Most of the time

31. Whats the one thing that people always misunderstand about you?

Most people say I am unapproachable, really I’m not I like to talk to people meet new people. But I watch people see what people are like before I just jump in and start talking. But if people talk to me I will talk to them. But i still keep everyone at arms length until i really get to know them and i feel i can trust them. 

32. What is your idea of a perfect vacation?

taking the kids somewhere they have been wanting to go and being able to do whatever they want to do without worrying about cost or time. 

33. What did your past relationship teach you?

To not settle, to trust your gut, to not do something if it’s something you really don’t want to do just to make someone else happy. To love myself, to not lose myself in my relationship, that its ok to do things I like and take time for just me and my friends. 

34. What are your thoughts on online dating?

It isn’t for me, there is a lot lost in chatting and meeting people on line and to much of a chance for the other person to stretch the truth or lie. 

35. Whats on your bucket list this year?

To get a decent job so I can get mine and the kids plans back on track. 

36. When have you felt your biggest adrenaline rush?

probably a few months back when Little Bitty disappeared at the park and I thought someone was locked in the bathroom with her. 

37. What is the craziest thing youve ever done and would you do it again?

hum I don’t think the things I do are that crazy but others seem to think I do a lot of crazy things. The one thing that I can think of is flashing lol yes I would do it again. I have many times. 

38. If a genie granted you 3 wishes right now, what would you wish for?

1. To have the money to go get another truck like mine, just how I want it motor wise and it not need any work done to it or break for a while 

To have enough money to just pack me the kids and the few things we want and move and buy the land we want and have our house built.

for the one I have feelings for to feel the same and go with us and to live happily from now on.

I know dreaming but hey dream big right.

39. Whats your biggest regret in life?

my kids not having their fathers in their lives. I know it was their choices and there is nothing I could of done to change that but i still regret it they don’t. 

40. What do you think about when youre by yourself?

How lonely I am, how much better I would feel just having that someone that cared and how scared I still am to get close to someone again after 5 years. 

 

Lets do something fun if there is anything you want to know about me or question you want to ask leave it in the comments. I will put them all together and answer them in another post in a few days. You can ask anything you want I will answer honestly. I am a pretty open person.



{April 13, 2017}   Lets Get to Know Each Other

Grabbed this from I Am My Own Island , check her out she has great blog to follow.

I am supposed to be doing a million and one other things right now and only have a few minutes to do this but I am waiting on a phone call and getting a little agitated so figured I do something to get my mine off things. If you would like grab them and answer as well. Let me know if you do would love to read your answers.

1.What’s your philosophy in life? Just be you and take care of your business as long as you are taking care of what you need to everything will work out. 

2. What’s the one thing you would like to change about yourself? My depression 

3. Are you religious or spiritual? A little of both I guess

4. Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert? Extrovert

5. Which parent are you closer to and why? I was closes to my dad by far, because he was supportive no matter what. He didn’t tell you what to do and expect you to do it he let you live life learn your lesson and was there no matter what happen. 

6. What was the best phase in your life? 2012 when me and RC was together I had my kids, his kids, him and happier than I have ever been in life. 

7. What was the worst phase in your life? 2015 when I lost my dad. 

8. Is what you’re doing now what you always wanted to do growing up? I am going to school right now to do what I have wanted to do since I was 14 years old. Before that I really never knew what I wanted to do besides be a mom. 

9. What makes you feel accomplished? Overcoming all the hurdles that come my way.

10. What’s your favorite book/movie of all time and why did it speak to you so much? I have no idea why it stuck out to me so much but I loved the book Of Mice and Men. It’s funny because it isn’t even a book I would just pick up and read but I had to read it in high school. 

11. What is a relationship deal breaker for you? Someone who is controlling 

12. Are you more into looks or brains? Brains

13. Would you ever take back someone who cheated? I don’t know probably not. 

14. How do you feel about sharing your password with your partner? I have nothing to hide but am the most open book private person you will ever meet. I do not mind you looking at my stuff but don’t do it behind my back. I feel doing it behind someone’s back means you don’t trust them. I do not like my things gone through. 

15. When do you think a person is ready for marriage? Never just like you are really never ready for kids. I think like kids if we waited until we were 100% ready there would be no kids or marriages. 

16. What kind of parent do you think you will be? I have 4 kids and they range in age from 4 to 13 and I get told all the time how good they are, what manners they have and what a great big family I have. So I guess I am doing something right and not screwing them up to much j/k

17. What would you do if your parents didn’t like your partner? Nothing I would be more worried if she liked them the way she is. 

18. Who is that one person you can talk to about just anything? My friend Scott aka my one good friend. We have known each other since we were about 8 years old. 

19. Do you usually stay friends with your exes? Some

20. Have you ever lost someone close to you? My dad

21. If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be left alone or have someone to cheer you up? depends who the someone is

22. What’s an ideal weekend for you? spending time with the person I am with alone just doing whatever they like doing. 

23. What do you think of best friends of the opposite sex? Mine is great

24. Do you judge a book by its cover? I always think something about someone but I give them the benefit of doubt and a chance to prove different. We are all wrong sometimes. 

25. Are you confrontational? Yes if I need to be

26. When was the last time you broke someone’s heart? Probably my ex husbands

27. Would you relocate for love? depends where am at, if I was to meet someone right now I probably would. Once I get me and the kids settled and we have the house and things we want no I probably wouldn’t. They have been through to much and I will have worked to hard to get where we want to be. 

28. Did you ever write a journal? Blog

29. What are you most thankful for? My children

30. Do you believe in second chances? Yes

31. What’s the one thing that people always misunderstand about you? They think I have it all together and a lot stronger than I am.

32. What is your idea of a perfect vacation? some time a way in a nice motel being pampered. I need a break.

33. What did your past relationship teach you? To always say what your feeling not to hold everything inside. If they are asking they are asking because they care if you push them away they are going to think you don’t. 

34. What are your thoughts on online dating or tinder? I do not understand how people use them, I have looked at them and even set up an account with one but it feels so impersonal. I feel like I am shopping for shoes or somet

35. What’s on your bucket list this year? To get back to work and finish half the classes I have left to do. 

36. When have you felt your biggest adrenaline rush? Probably when I had my kids.

37. What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done and would you do it again? Sex in public places, probably

38. If a genie granted you 3 wishes right now, what would you wish for? To be able to take 4 classes over the Summer, Go ahead and move to our dream house, to have enough money the kids and I can live life without worrying about anything.

39. What’s your biggest regret in life? Not realizing what was going on when me and RC were together and trying to do something to change things. 

40. What do you think about when you’re by yourself? How nice it would be to find someone to share life with again who is in it for the long haul. 



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