{September 6, 2018}   Random About Me

When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with?

Relationships, kids and jobs

What takes up too much of your time?


What do you wish you knew more about?

The field of work I am trying to go into and how to get money to open a business.

What would be your first question after waking up from being cryogenically frozen for 100 years?

I want to know what was going on.

What are some small things that make your day better?

My kids, talking to my friends

Who’s your go to band or artist when you can’t decide on something to listen to?

Don’t have one, I just flip stations until I find a song.

What’s the best way to start the day?

Alive waking up. Okay really um being able to sleep until I wake up on my own and not have to rush to get ready or be anywhere.

What shows are you into?

True crime, 48 hours, 20/20, dateline all those kinds of things. This Is Us

What TV channel doesn’t exist but really should?

Don’t know

Who has impressed you most with what they’ve accomplished?

My oldest son with autism. He has come along way in 13 years.

What age do you wish you could permanently be?

I don’t know maybe somewhere between 25 and 30.

What TV show or movie do you refuse to watch?

Sponge bob

What would be your ideal way to spend the weekend?

With my other half away alone with no kids or worries.

What is something that is considered a luxury, but you don’t think you could live

Hum a vehicle

What’s your claim to fame?

I have been in the news paper a few times lol

What’s something you like to do the old-fashioned way?

I like to go places and take care of things pay bills or what. I want to talk with someone face to face. Most everything is done on line.

What’s your favorite genre of book or movie?

Books anything true, movies comedy

How often do you people watch?

All the time

What have you only recently formed an opinion about?

Not much because if it is not affecting me i really don’t care.

What’s the best single day on the calendar?


What are you interested in that most people haven’t heard of?

Can’t think of anything.

How do you relax after a hard day of work?

Hot shower and writing. If im extra lucky a nice walk on the beach at night.

What was the best book or series that you’ve ever read?

How to catch a killer

What’s the farthest you’ve ever been from home?

Few states away

What is the most heartwarming thing you’ve ever seen?

Can’t pick just one, its the little things and my kids are always doing something. They are so kind and caring.

What is the most annoying question that people ask you?

Are all those kids yours? You don’t look old enough to have that many.

Or anything someone ask more than once.

{September 3, 2018}   Random Questions 2 About Me

What could you give a 40-minute presentation on with absolutely no preparation?

Kids, parenting, domestic violence

If you were dictator of a small island nation, what crazy dictator stuff would you do?

I would findout what the people wanted or needed and try to make things happen they wanted.

What is something you think everyone should do at least once in their lives?

Coming up blank on this one.

Would you rather go hang gliding or whitewater rafting?

Hang gliding

What’s your dream car?

My excursion is my dream truck. Not into cars.

What’s worth spending more on to get the best?

A vehicle

What is something that a ton of people are obsessed with but you just don’t get the
point of?

Name brand clothing, shoes, purses

What are you most looking forward to in the next 10 years?

My kids being older, being more settled and stable and able to give them more.

Where is the most interesting place you’ve been?

Life is pretty boring can’t think of anywhere really.

What’s something you’ve been meaning to try but just haven’t gotten around to it?

Walk more, get the kids more active 😢

What’s the best thing that happened to you last week?

Probably my $10 tip. Other than that it was a pretty uneventful week.

What piece of entertainment do you wish you could erase from your mind so that you
could experience for the first time again?


If all jobs had the same pay and hours, what job would you like to have?


What amazing thing did you do that no one was around to see?

How different was your life one year ago?

Sadly not much

What quirks do you have?

I sleep at the foot of the bed when I am sick or don’t feel well.

What would you rate 10 / 10?


What fad or trend do you hope comes back?

Guys wearing cologne or body spray

What kind of art do you enjoy most?

Panting and drawing

What do you hope never changes?

How close me and the kids are to eachother

What city would you most like to live in?

Don’t know about what city but somewhere in Tenn.

What movie title best describes your life?

Feel like Groundhogs Day

Why did you decide to do the work you are doing now?

It is a job and they hired me

What’s the best way a person can spend their time?

With the one’s who mean the most to them.

If you suddenly became a master at woodworking, what would you make?

All those DIY things I seen for the house. Furniture, declarations and things for the house.

{August 31, 2018}   Random Questions 1

If you didn’t have to sleep, what would you do with the extra time?

I would go back to school and spend more time with the kids.

What’s your favorite piece of clothing you own / owned?

Hum I love my jeans, all I ever wear.

What hobby would you get into if time and money weren’t an issue?

Flipping houses

What would your perfect room look like?

I have nice big bedroom with a king size bed, big walk in closets were you had room to get dressed. Big master bathroom with a tub big enough to soak in.

How often do you play sports?


What fictional place would you most like to go?

Starkshallow or Mayberry can I live there please?

What job would you be terrible at?

I am sure there are lots. I like to work but I have to be into it or i don’t do good.

When was the last time you climbed a tree?

As a kid probably

If you could turn any activity into an Olympic sport, what would you have a good
chance at winning medal for?

Not sleeping at night like other normal people.

What is the most annoying habit that other people have?

Other than breathing for some. Chewing with their mouth open.

What job do you think you’d be really good at?

Social work

What skill would you like to master?

Reading minds lol

What would be the most amazing adventure to go on?

Cross country road trip.

If you had unlimited funds to build a house that you would live in for the rest of your
life, what would the finished house be like?

Not a lot of rooms but lots of room. First floor would be kitchen, livingroom, dining room all open into eachother. There would also be a bathroom and guest bedroom along with a library. A big wrap around porch.

The 2nd floor would have 4 to 6 good size bedrooms with a bathroom inbetween each two so they would share. I would have a laoundry room on 2nd floor with two to three washer and dries. There would be a loft area on either side of the hall way. One for older kids their things one for younger kids. And a wrap around porch.

All of the 3rd floor would be all my room and bathroom. With of course a porch

What’s your favorite drink?

Sweet tea

What state or country do you never want to go back to?

What songs have you completely memorized?

To many but i bet they aren’t 100% right.

What game or movie universe would you most like to live in?

Not sure

What do you consider to be your best find?

My house

Are you usually early or late?


What pets did you have while you were growing up?

Birds,fish, dogs, hamster, ferrets,cat

{August 18, 2018}   ABC Tag

Okay so Therapy Bits and A Multitude of Musings shared the ABC Tag post so I thought I would too. Its fun to get to know eachother better. Sorry I can not post links to everyone. But check them all out, great bloggers to follow.

    • Age: 38


    • Books: when I can read I love to read true crime about murders, kidnappings and things like that. And biographies or auto biographies.


    • Colors: Red and Yellow


    • Dream: To move and not struggle to get by.


    • Everyday starts with: Getting kids ready for school and making sure everything is done before I have to leave for work.


    • Flower: lilies


    • Goals: Get move, get a better job and meet someone.


    • Height: 5’3


    • In love with: No one


    • Job: An escape room


    • Kids: 4


    • Last thing I ate: slim jim and tea. Seems to be what I am surviving on most days.


    • Magic power: I would love to know what people are thinking. But i give myself away because i couldnt keep my mouth shut at times once i knew. Lol
    • Number of fears: just snakes mostly.


    • Outfit: jeans and my work t shirt


    • Passions: don’t know that I have any anymore.


    • Quotes: no is just an obstical not a end.


    • Reasons to Smile: my kids


    • Season: Fall


    • Travels: would love to travel to all 50 states.


    • Under water animals: dolphins they are fun to watch at the river.


    • Vacation: anywhere without kids lol


    • Worst habit: putting things off until its to late.


    • X-Men character: none


    • Your favorite food: salad


  • Zodiac sign: Capricorn

{December 30, 2016}   42 Questions About Me

42 Questions You’ve Probably Never Been Asked: (Got this from I Am My Own Island & Tabbi)

Here are my anwers
1. First thing you wash in the shower? Hair

2. What color is your favorite hoodie? Gray

3. Do you plan outfits? No

4. How are you feeling right now? Cold and sleepy

5. What’s the closest thing to you that’s red? My shirt and yarn are over there on the trunk together both red

6. Tell me about the last dream you remember having? I was being chased by these people and they had stolen my money

7. Did you meet anybody new today? no

8. What are you craving right now? Nothing

9. What comes to mind when you think of cabbage? farts I don’t like it and it smells bad LOL

10. Have you ever counted to 1,000 before? Yes

11. Do you bite into your ice cream or just lick it? lick it

12. Do you like your hair? It’s ok

13. Do you like yourself? Ofcourse

14. Would you go out to eat with George W. Bush? sure

15. What are you listening to right now? kids playing and running around the house

16. Are your parents strict? Dad no mom very over protective

17. Would you go sky diving? I think it would be fun would love to get the nerve up to go

18. Do you like cottage cheese? no

19. Have you ever met a celebrity? not that I can think of

20. Do you rent movies often? nope kids wouldn’t stop losing them or letting me forget to take them back cost me to much

21. Is there anything sparkly in the room you’re in? my oldest angel on the dresser

22. Have you made a prank phone call? yes

23. Ever been on a train? no

24. Brown or white eggs? dont’ matter

25. Do you use chap stick? no not anymore

26. Can you use chop sticks? No

27. Are you too forgiving? No

28. Ever been in love? Yes

29. Last time you cried?  Christmas

30. What was the last question you asked? Who is going outside?

31. Favorite time of the year? Fall

32. Do you have any tattoos? 2 and can’t wait to be working and things in order to get more.

33. Are you sarcastic? all the time

34. Ever walked into a wall? To many times

35. Favorite color? yellow and red

36. Have you ever slapped someone? Yes

37. Is your hair curly? waive

38. Do looks matter? Not much.

39. Do you like your life right now? yes

40. Do you sleep with the TV on? no

41. Can you handle the truth? Rather the truth than a lie

42. Do you have good vision? no

If you’d like to swipe these and answer…go ahead. But let me know so I can check out your answers please.

{March 14, 2014}   I Think I’m Ready

I think I’m ready to start dating again. But defiantly doing things different this time around. This time around I’m going to take things way slower. Not getting into a relationship right a way. I’m going to explore my options more.

If/when I get into another relationship I’m still going to take things slow. They are just going to have to understand or move on. I have been through too much and put my kids through too much. I feel like my life has been on hold since I met RC. Right now it’s about getting my life back and achieving the things I want to before it’s to late.

I don’t expect them to just hang out and wait or just be there when I have time. That isn’t fair or right either. I plan to find a balance with everything and to be there for every one and thing as they need. But this time I have to keep things up and follow through with what I plan to do and need to do.

Things can’t be like they became when I got married to father of the year or with RC. I had plans to go back to school and things when I met father of the year and we ended up getting married. Once we did then I had my daughter and things just kind of got put on hold from there. I went and done my massage school but that wasn’t really what I wants to do and I heard about it the 7 months I was in there.

When I finally got a way from father of the year I decided I wanted to go back to school and work, I just wanted to get a job get the kids settled and things like that. Then I met RC. I still planed to do all that. But with things the way they were I was trying to wait for us to get a bigger place and kids settled. And we all know how that went.

This time no matter what happens my plans and things are coming first. I’m not going to put things on hold again to just maybe be screwed in the end when something “better” comes along.

et cetera
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