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{February 27, 2020}   Re: Court Round 2 Finally

So court with Father of the year was yesterday. Jw told them he was going to be late and went with me so I didn’t have to go alone. After the way I felt the last time I seen him. When They told him he had to pay the $2500.

We got there about 15 minutes early and I was surprised there was no one there yet. When I went the last time the place was packed standing room only. In a few minutes three other couples came in and then one other after that. They took the one back right away then called everyone else in in alphabetical order. I was 7th on the list. Two of the couples were together so there was only 3 others there. They called couple after couple back and most weren’t there. They finally called us and surprise, surprise Father of the Year wasn’t there.

I went in they had me sit where he sat last time asked my name, told me who was there. Then she looked at his address said notice was sent. I said that is still his address. She said then I am considering him serviced. She asked the lawyer for child support how far behind he was and they said $4600 and something. She said she was issuing a warrant for $2000. Asked if I had any questions. I told her no and she said okay and that was that. Jw said you were in there a minute or two if that. I said yes I know because he wasn’t here.

I was so fucking pissed off when we got out of there. He is over $4600 behind and she puts out a $2000 warrant for him!!! That is it $2000!!! He has everything handed to him and thinks that if he just walks off and don’t show up for court nothing is going to happen. What does he think the judge wouldn’t issue the warrant if he didn’t show up? My Good Friend said he bet he left town. I said no you have to have money for that and he don’t have any of that. Last night when I got off work I picked Jw up and we drove by and sure enough he was at home, company truck parked right in the driveway like always. I hope that they pick him up soon, I could really use the money. But now instead of going to court and getting someone to bring the money or give him the money he is going to have to go to jail and then hope someone gives him the money and comes and gets him.

I should call and do a welfare check on Father of the Year. Tell them we had a big meeting yesterday and he never showed up. That he normally showed up for these kind of things and I haven’t heard from him. Give them his name and address. I just hope they get him driving and his boss gets in trouble as well.

 



{May 5, 2019}   After 5 on Sunday

Here I sit it is Sunday evening after 5 and nothing from my boss about my truck. I messaged them earlier and he said he was going to message him and let me know. That was hours ago and I still haven’t heard anything.

I said to the guy who’s training me wife Friday I would believe it when I seen it because nothing seems to ever work out like I am told and here I sit.

I have no idea what I am going to do I can’t afford to miss work at either job tomorrow and can’t get to the one if I don’t have it fixed. I called churches in the area that fix cars for people but if I can’t get it there they won’t help me.

I have missed hours and days at work the last few weeks it is just putting me further behind. Another day at both I don’t know If I will ever get ahead. I don’t know if I will now at this rate. I have no idea what I am going to do.



{September 8, 2018}   Guess Who Never Called

Thats right you guessed it Father Of The Year never called to meet and see the kids. I gave him a time and day. He just had to call confirm it and what park. Did he no didn’t even bother to try. We know he has a phone because boss was trying to message and call him on it. So can’t use that as an excuse. If he didn’t when boss told him he could of used his. He would of let him.



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