It was our normal night out, we ended up having 3 extra people come with us. Bff’s oldest and her boyfriend came. He just joined the Navy and is in Italy. He is back for a few weeks. He came and seen everyone. Bff’s aunt was there as always. Sleeping Beauty came and his friend from work who came before came. Last time he sat at the bar after Sleeping Beauty ran outside and met him. Tonight he went over to the bar something was said, he went and told him he could sit with us we had room so he did.
We all talked and had a good time. We were all sitting there and Sleeping Beauties friend got up said he was going to the bathroom and walked off. In just a minute then he got up, I don’t know if he said where he was going but I knew sure enough right to the bathroom.
I messaged Bff and said something about them going to the bathroom together. She didn’t read it I walked outside with her aunt they still hadn’t come back. I called her so no one knew who was calling. Told her read it. She said wow. I said I am telling you. She was like um or hmm something like that. Like she didn’t believe me or think that was what he was doing.
I said I know before he picked it up went somewhere public went to the bathroom, they did traded there. No one see”s no one thinks anything of it.
Little bit he sniff, sniff, sniffing and whipping at his nose and shit. We went to the bathroom I pointed it out to her. She was like yeah I noticed once or twice. We were there for a while after that I notice and face he make things he would do. She clueless knows nothing about this stuff. She just thinks no no no it couldn’t be.
I just called her when I was at the lot earlier and was talking to her about him. Mr. Auto started talking to me told me he was there today and he said so and so is right. He is skinny not looking good talking about why he lost so much. He said he told him again that is your friend talk to him help him. He said you can’t he won’t talk. I said he is 100% right, he will not talk about anything big or small he will 100% shut down not say a word and be gone not hear from him no more for a while.
I told him I tried to talk to him when he was at my house and everything happen. He left came back packed his stuff why his mommy waited in the car and left. Said I put him out. I said I never told him he had to leave I told him we needed to talk and get somethings cleared up. I said i get told im asking 20 questions. I said I have only ask one and trying to get an answer to it. So maybe I have ask it 20 times or 20 different ways but it’s the same one not 20. Mr. Auto laughed he said but no your right you have to ask questions that’s your family your kids. I said my point. I said he has made the comment to me he just needs out of here away from it all a new start. I said i think that is what it is going to take or something bad is going to happen to him. He just looked and said your probably right.
We were talking about how they said he was on it how he looked like he does now when me and him were doing repo’s for him he was staying here. I said then he went to his moms that is way the fuck up there for a few months. He came back he had gained weight was looking good a lot better. He said yeah he did get bigger there at one time looked healthy. I said yes but he was way up there not working and no way or reason to come down here. He was away from it. I said now he back at the lot over there hanging out with these guys he is right back into it. He stays at their houses and things. He said yeah that isn’t good. I said no and told him how he told me before i ever seen him he lost a lot he was eating less and better. I said he knew I would say something but im not stupid.
Tonight after we left applebees me him and bff went to the store. He went somewhere and something was said about it. Bff said I want to say something to him. I just want to tell him or ask him. I said no because he is just going to lie about it get all pissed off and bent out of shape. Tonight this late and here, right now is not the place to say anything. She said okay.
Like Mr. Auto said someone needs to talk to him. But like I told him too you can’t the way he shuts down. And if he don’t want help it isn’t going to change things. He said true, I don’t know what anyone can do. I said I don’t either it is sad.
I am with bff, I want to say something but I don’t know what or how. Odds are he is going to deny it and then be telling bff I’m just making it up because I’m mad or don’t know what I am talking about or what. He will stop coming around. That is fine but maybe if he keeps coming around and doing things with all of us together he will back off some or stop again. I just don’t know. I thought maybe if we confront him tell him we aren’t stupid we know what he is doing and why he lost all the weight and things. Then just tell him we all like him, care about him, the kids do we all like hanging out the kids do too. But that we can’t have that around the kids and risk something happening like almost did at my house or anything else. I am sure he try say that won’t happen he not doing it there, he not staying there or whatever. But fact is he is doing it he don’t know what one may or may not do if he pisses someone off again. All they have to do is sit watch him or anything. They knew where he was when he was staying here he had no car or nothing to watch for to see if he was here or what. Just because they drove by once happen to see him here maybe don’t mean he was living here. They had to be watching.
It is so hard to know what to do but at the same time he thinks he has us all snowed and we have no clue what he is doing. He is getting away with something. I don’t know what to say or do but something has to be said. I don’t like the idea of him around the kids and things if this is what he is going to do. Because he is only going to get worse once he movies down here Sunday with their friend. I feel like calling his mom and saying something to her, but with his aunt the way she is I don’t want to do that.
I just wonder what she knows or has to say about it. She has to see it and know it. See the weight loss. Unless she is stupid she has to know it isn’t what he is or isn’t eating or his sugar problem like he tried to say before.
I would like to talk to someone about this kind of thing and how they think we should go about it and talking to him about getting help. When he shuts down says he isn’t doing anything.
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