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{August 9, 2016}   Everything Done

At least today I feel like I have gotten something done. In just the 4 short hours that I was out. I managed to go back to the clerk of courts and get my certified copy of my papers. When I called this morning she said it would be about $5 to get it. I got there there was two people in front of me, then when they called the next person one lady said she was waiting on her husband and the kids said they were waiting to talk to one guy that was busy with someone else. The guy ask me to wait and moved the person he was with over to the lady and took the kids. I had to then wait for the next clerk to get done. It ended up being the lady that helped me yesterday. I told her I called this morning to see what was going on and that they told me they put it in today. She looked it up printed, stamped it and gave it to me. I asked her how much and she said nothing not to worry about it since I had to come back and was just there yesterday.

Then I get to the Social Security Office and I get a lady instead of the guy that I had yesterday. I gave her everything to get my new card and the name change. I told her I had a few thing to take care of so when we were done with that she asked what else. I told her that I got SSI for my son I wanted to make sure that it got changed and that I started getting child support so I needed to report that. She said I would need to bring the print out from the child support place. I told her they weren’t doing it that way he was just paying me direct and that he had paid me from for two weeks now last Friday. It showed on the same order that my name change was on and the amount per month. She said she needed to make a copy. When she came back she gave me my copy I told her she gave me the wrong copy because it didn’t have the blue stamp on it. She took it looked said no that it was because it had the staple in it and that what I gave her didn’t have a blue stamp. I ask her how she did it without that because I had been there yesterday and the guy refused said I had to get the other one. She said she used that one she could see it was not a copy and the stamped copy from the judge. I told her sorry for the confusion that I must have grabbed the wrong one when I came in but that I needed to make sure that I had the one that had the blue stamp so that when I went other places that needed it. But it kind of made me mad that I have spent two days running around doing this because he refused to take something the other lady said they could have taken.

After that we went school supply shopping for the two older kids. We took them and got close the other day. Today I got the papers, markers and all that good stuff. I am down $75 or more and still have one more kid to shop for this weekend coming up.

I now have an hour and a half before I have to pick the little ones up, go to therapy then leave there and go to the kids school for their open house or whatever they call it. I think I am going to take a much needed nap.



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